I particularly liked the note Chapman does on people who are money savers and don’t like spending on “meaningless” stuff (I am like that). Especially hurtful is missing gifts for celebrations, birthday and anniversaries. If you never buy gifts and your partner’s love language is gifts, you are hurting them. Often of little value but requiring work and thought. I had a girlfriend whose language of love was gifts, and she always came up with super personalize gifts for me. The value of the gift is actually often less important (unless she’s a low quality girl). Indeed, that’s what gifts stand for: a symbol of appreciation, a sign you are thinking of them and, of course, a symbol love. If your love language is gifts, you appreciate gifts and concrete symbols of love. You will hurt people whose love language is quality time the most when you avoid spending time together.Īvoid postponing dates, being distracted and not listening to them.
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